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Friday, April 22, 2011

How to Be a Good Girlfriend or Boyfriend

Everyone deserves to be your boyfriend or girlfriend they are good for them. How you can be better in a relationship Sweet? Read on for tips and what you need? Statistics on Kindness, Patience.


1.Listen with him or her.
When your boyfriend or your girlfriend says, make sure you not only hear what they say, but actually listen to everything and taking it all in. If you Other important not feel like you're paying attention, they will not feel important to you and you will really have problems with your relationship.

2.Be support.
Make it clear to your partner that you will be there for him or her every step of the way. This is very important for a good relationship.

3.Be honest and true.
Never lie to him or her. Say what you mean and mean what you say. If you are not honest, big problems will erupt. Besides, the way you want to lie? Its totally unfair. If you feel that you have to lie about something, you should not do it. And above all, never EVER cheated!

4.Do something Special or sweet out of nowhere.
It should not be a special occasion to make a nice gesture. Surprised to see that you care. Whatever you do not have to be fancy or expensive, it only needs to show you were thinking of him / her. This will keep some spontaneity in your relationship.

5.Be intimate.
This does not mean you have sex. Just make sure to hold hands, hug, kiss. Do not let your relationship takes away the special intimate moments. You need to keep flame alive.

6.Remind him or her that you care.
Everyone likes to be reminded that they are loved. Make sure to let them know on a regular basis how much you care for them. It will make them feel special will help keep your relationship strong.

You'll Need Three Things

***Interest in your girlfriend or boyfriend***

A.Patience (What is patience, and how can you develop it?)

“Patience is not about waiting. It is not about too little, or too much. It is not about working slowly, or working faster – it is not about taking more time or taking less time.

It is about letting go completely, absolutely, totally; with no strings attached. No strings of any kind. It is about being without the strings. The strings being the ‘push’ and ‘pull’ of our attachments to our intentions, our expectations, our desires.

It is about allowing what is its’ right time, right place, right way of coming into full being. It is about our perceptions being fully open to the moment. It is about sensing and moving with the ebb and flow of all tides.”

Have a Patience (Its a Good think)

Patience Quotes

1.Learn the art of patience. Apply discipline to your thoughts when they become anxious over the outcome of a goal. Impatience breeds anxiety, fear, discouragement and failure. Patience creates confidence, decisiveness, and a rational outlook, which eventually leads to success. (Brian Adams)

2.Patience is the greatest of all virtues.(Cato the Elder)

3.A handful of patience is worth more than a bushel of brains.(Dutch Proverb)

4.Our patience will achieve more than our force. (Edmund Burke )

5.It is very strange that the years teach us patience - that the shorter our time, the greater our capacity for waiting. (Elizabeth Taylor)

6.There art two cardinal sins from which all others spring: Impatience and Laziness. (Franz Kafka)

7.Patience has its limits. Take it too far, and it's cowardice.(George Jackson)

8.We could never learn to be brave and patient, if there were only joy in the world.(Helen Keller)

9.The fates have given mankind a patient soul.(Homer)

10.If I have ever made any valuable discoveries, it has been owing more to patient attention, than to any other talent.(Isaac Newton)

11.Patience serves as a protection against wrongs as clothes do against cold. For if you put on more clothes as the cold increases, it will have no power to hurt you.

So in like manner you must grow in patience when you meet with great wrongs, and they will then be powerless to vex your mind.(Leonardo da Vinci)

12.I am extraordinarily patient, provided I get my own way in the end.(Margaret Thatcher)

13.There will be a time when loud-mouthed, incompetent people seem to be getting the best of you. When that happens, you only have to be patient and wait for them to self destruct. It never fails.(Richard Rybolt)

14.Patience is the companion of wisdom.(Saint Augustine)

15.Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself. Do not lose courage in considering your own imperfections but instantly set about remedying them - every day begin the task anew.(Saint Francis de Sales)

16.You must first have a lot of patience to learn to have patience.(Stanislaw J. Lec)

17.Patience is the best remedy for every trouble.(Titus Maccius Plautus)

18.Have courage for the great sorrows of life and patience for the small ones; and when you have laboriously accomplished your daily task, go to sleep in peace. God is awake.(Victor Hugo)

19.How poor are they who have not patience! What wound did ever heal but by degrees.(William Shakespeare)

B. Kindness (What is true kindness? and how can I develop it?)

Kindness is an important quality to have. When someone is nice, it means that person is attentive and nice to others. Some examples of humanity are saying please and thank you, share, and do anything to help others. When you treat others with kindness, both of you feel good!

The important thing is to try and always kind. You do not need a reason to be kind, that is something you can do simply because it is the right way to treat others! If you see a child on the playground who have difficulty forcing their shoes, be kind and help! Do it simply for "thank you" and smiles from the other kids, and then hope that he will pass on your kindness and helping others. Kindness not cost you anything except some time soon to give a hug, share a laugh, or tell someone how much they are appreciated. Pass it on!

Kindness Quotes

1.Today I bent the truth to be kind, and I have no regret, for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true. (Robert Brault)

2.If you haven't any charity in your heart, you have the worst kind of heart trouble. (Bob Hope)

3.Never look down on anybody unless you're helping him up. (Jesse Jackson)

4.A good character is the best tombstone. Those who loved you and were helped by you will remember you when forget-me-nots have withered. Carve your name on hearts, not on marble. (Charles H. Spurgeon)

5.It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice. (Author Unknown)

6.Today, give a stranger one of your smiles. It might be the only sunshine he sees all day. (Jackson Brown, Jr.)

7.Treat everyone with politeness, even those who are rude to you - not because they are nice, but because you are. (Author Unknown)

8.What this world needs is a new kind of army - the army of the kind. (Cleveland Amory)

9.If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion. (Dalai Lama)

10.Never miss an opportunity to make others happy, even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it. (Author Unknown)

11.A fellow who does things that count, doesn't usually stop to count them. (Variation of a saying by Albert Einstein)

12.Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see. (Mark Twain)

13.Wherever there is a human being, there is an opportunity for a kindness. (Seneca)

14.A kind word is like a Spring day. (Russian Proverb)

15.Kindness is in our power, even when fondness is not. (Samuel Johnson)

16.Don't wait for people to be friendly, show them how. (Author Unknown)

17.The most important trip you may take in life is meeting people halfway. (Henry Boye)

18.When I was young, I admired clever people. Now that I am old, I admire kind people. (Abraham Joshua Heschel)

19.If we should deal out justice only, in this world, who would escape? No, it is better to be generous, and in the end more profitable, for it gains gratitude for us, and love. (Mark Twain)

20.Life is mostly froth and bubble,
Two things stand like stone,
Kindness in another's trouble,
Courage in your own.
(Adam Lindsay Gordon)

21.You can't live a perfect day without doing something for someone who will never be able to repay you. (John Wooden)

22.Kindness, like a boomerang, always returns. (Author Unknown)

23.Kindness is the greatest wisdom. (Author Unknown)

24.If thou are a master, be sometimes blind; if a servant, sometimes deaf. (Thomas Fuller)

25.If we cannot be clever, we can always be kind. (Alfred Fripp)

26.To give and then not feel that one has given is the very best of all ways of giving. (Max Beerbohm)

27.Love someone who doesn't deserve it. (Author Unknown)

C. Interest in your girlfriend or boyfriend

If you've got to the stage where you're wondering how to keep your new date or love interest interested - congratulations!!! Hopefully you've found a good match, and if so there should be a healthy tension between you that is fun and needs to be maintained! Here's a few ways to do it...

keep him interested - written by a man!
1) be attentive and enthusiastic - win his trust, build his confidence with genuine appreciation - no false flattery please!
2) show appreciation of his jokes - unless they're terrible!
3) be warm and inviting but maintain a distance - let him catch you at times! Also don't expect him to do all the chasing - surprise him by being forward at times!
4) when a potential problem occurs - be positive and always look on the bright side - this is very attractive to a man!
5) always leave him wanting more!

keep her interested - written by a woman
1) Be attentive and romantic
2) Keep her guessing as to your availability - let here know you often go out but not necessarily with whom!
3) Don't be too keen
4) Be relaxed and confident
5) Feel free to indicate ambition and knowledge without arrogance
6) A little vulnerability goes a long way
7) Keep your eyes where they should be!!
8) Always leave her wanting more!


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